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1 Year
Aug 6, 2008 6:43:25 GMT 1
Post by norfolkbirdie on Aug 6, 2008 6:43:25 GMT 1
Well here it is the final first. It's seems impossible that I've made it to here and yet I feel oddly proud that I have ; that I managed to keep my promise to Dave. Everyone tells you time helps until you want to scream ( I screamed alot ) and whilst you are in the dark miserable places you can't believe it but when you have reached the bottom of your grief and start to see a little clearer, then you realise it's true! Time gives you perspective and reflection. I miss everything that was Dave continually but not every reminder makes me fall apart now, I can smile at some,cry at some. I still visit him in the woodland and tell him everything, I have learned so much about our love and that it didn't die but does still go on.
Today I will plant a new tree in the garden for him and give him the latest installment of news and just feel him close to me. I will raise a glass and try to be happy for everything we had together and not dwell too much on the sadness . It's hard to write how much having this site to post your thoughts and gain advice from others helped whilst Dave was alive and continued to help after he died but it did. I still visit and read the posts often . So thanks to all the 'listeners' out there.
Ros
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1 Year
Aug 6, 2008 22:08:53 GMT 1
Post by Deanne Jenkyns on Aug 6, 2008 22:08:53 GMT 1
Dear Ros, I just wanted to say Dave will be ever so proud of you. I cannot even begin to imagine what you have gone through this past year. I am so pleased that you are doing better. You sound so much stronger sending you lots of ((((hugs)))
Deanne x
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1 Year
Aug 6, 2008 22:12:10 GMT 1
Post by jljenkyns on Aug 6, 2008 22:12:10 GMT 1
Hi Roz
time comes around so quick , it does not seem 2 minutes since we were all standing outside Nice headquarters , i remember dave so vividly i often think about him he was a nice guy who i sadly only knew for a short while. I am happy that you are remembering the good times and of course you will have screamed you were certainly entitled to.when you raise your glass take a sip for me and deanne although tell him mine is actually a pint.
thinking of you
jim xx
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1 Year
Aug 9, 2008 11:35:42 GMT 1
Post by daisey on Aug 9, 2008 11:35:42 GMT 1
Thinking of you too Roz. My best wishes. love Daisey x
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